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Post by rithfung on Jun 27, 2007 11:14:19 GMT -5
come on, why bother so much? i mean, this world has too many information to affect people thinking. ad, friends, celebrities, etc, all these are affecting every mankind...i am not kidding, after 2000, some psychologist suggest that people will change their mind easily because what others suggest. What i want to say is, don't make any choose because other people do that or their advise. Love is a basic instinct of Human. Dating and kissing is good, it teach us how to socialize people in a romantic way. But you also need to understand love is not just lust, it also means your heart's feeling. if you are young, i can understand you need time to learn this, but in your learning, please be a responsible person, think twice before making every steps, not just think about you, think for other too and about idol and fans...be honest, meeting Annasophia in person is also my dream just remember to what do you matters in your life  |
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Post by Kristina on Jun 27, 2007 17:45:06 GMT -5
I think it's perfectly ok to date. I just dont think it's ok to get too serious before your ready. Well, I do think it's a bit silly to date if it's not going to be serious. That's just me. But I don't mean to sound like I'm saying jump into a relationship, but get to know the person you like by hanging out in groups and then when you really think you're compatible with that person, then date. Good steps though.  |
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Post by worcnagrom on Jun 28, 2007 10:43:15 GMT -5
How would you know if you didn't date. You wouldn't know if you perfect for each other. That's why there is the first date. Just to get to know each other. If your first date doesn't go well, that's a sign that no dates are going go well. you may want to take a chance for the second date.
Is it worth the risk.
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Post by kar98 on Jun 28, 2007 11:42:22 GMT -5
ok, my advice is this, dont go out with a girl, then bang your best friend, break the other girls heart, and start going out with your best friend! i know it sounds insane, but this has all happened to me
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Post by modmike on Jun 28, 2007 12:05:05 GMT -5
ok, my advice is this, dont go out with a girl, then bang your best friend, break the other girls heart, and start going out with your best friend! i know it sounds insane, but this has all happened to me your best friend's a guy?  |
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Post by kar98 on Jun 28, 2007 13:26:19 GMT -5
no, my best friend is a girl, i am not gay
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Post by worcnagrom on Jun 28, 2007 18:24:11 GMT -5
I think you should save all ual intercoarse for marrage. Actually I know you should save it for marrage.
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Post by Kristina on Jun 28, 2007 19:37:29 GMT -5
You can get to know someone without dating them. In fact, I'm really glad I didn't even go on a first date with this one guy I liked. We were friends and we both liked each other. But he changed a lot (not going into details on how) and I'm glad we didn't date. His changing would have been even harder on me if we were together.
It's just my view on it, we all have different opinions on dating/relationships etc etc. I'm not saying that not dating is for everyone but I believe that not dating is for me. People think I'm crazy but, at least I'm not THE only one. haha.
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Post by kar98 on Jun 28, 2007 22:01:57 GMT -5
yeah, i know i should have waited, but i didnt, so you can kiss my a$$, that is my opinion
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Post by worcnagrom on Jun 30, 2007 10:35:18 GMT -5
Kar, not only should you have waited, you really will wish you would've wait.
Premarital violates so many things.
1. Scripture
2. Another Person
3. The Purpose for your own body.
4. Self-Control
5. Testimony
6. The Church
7. Your Parents.
8. Future Marrage
9. Good Health
10. Your Boldness
and Kristina, Dating is all a part of it. You base the direction of your relationship on the first date.
Dating helps you get two the stage of courtship. One of the steps of courtship 'Discovery'.
Finding out what you didn't know about this person. And dating can also open these doors.
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Post by modmike on Jun 30, 2007 10:50:22 GMT -5
i kinda have to agree with Krissy on this one - i think it's good to find different ways than the "horribly terrifying" first date -
what will i wear? what will i say? will he like me? will he think i talk too much? will he think i think too much? will we have anything to say...? the list is endless...
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Post by kado on Jun 30, 2007 21:43:23 GMT -5
did anyone answer the original question
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Post by worcnagrom on Jul 1, 2007 14:36:23 GMT -5
Well thats fine. It's perfectly Okay not to date ever. actually its better to stay single and not even get married. Of course I plan to get married some day, but today's not a good day for me to make that commitment. But if you plan getting married I'm afraid your going to have to go through with the first date. Or you'll misth out on sthe full relathonthip ekthperienthce.
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Post by christian on Jul 9, 2007 0:02:21 GMT -5
look! Coolio is back to give you all advice
For those too shy: you can direct your personal questions to my PM box.
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Post by kar98 on Jul 9, 2007 1:53:06 GMT -5
ok, i think i might have real advice this time....... if you are dating, be true..... dont be an a$$hole and cheat on a girl, like i did...
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