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Post by lolage on Apr 17, 2008 8:44:26 GMT -5
How do you do the impossible job, telling a girl from ur class you like her? I've said to myself 100 times today i would tell her as soon as she got on msn, but now that she is i just can't press that Enter key.
The thing is that i just want it TOLD, just get it out. Nothing bad can happen telling her, only its gonna be weird in school when seeing her. Am I right?
Some says to tell the person privately, and not by some textmessage. Others says to get drunk. A good suggestion since you then got alot easier telling it, but im not the big "parteeh" guy, sadly.
Any suggestions? Please be serious, i've had enough lame comments on this question earlier.
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Post by modmike on Apr 17, 2008 9:06:54 GMT -5
Girls like to be told that someone loves them, just as much as guys do. She may not return your love, but if you don't try you'll never know, right?
Oh, and tell her face to face, and try and be romantic.
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Post by lolage on Apr 17, 2008 9:11:03 GMT -5
Romantic? Isnt that grown-up stuff? Im just 15 :b But i dont expect love returned, i hope ofc but i wont be dissapointed if i dont - I just want it told so i dont have it by myself anymore, cuz that is so frustrating.
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Post by kar98 on Apr 17, 2008 15:51:05 GMT -5
just get it over with man, whats the worst that can happen, she doesn't have feelings for you? your right, your only 15, love can come later
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Post by lolage on Apr 17, 2008 17:10:20 GMT -5
i dont expect anything back, i just want it said. And no nothing bad can happen in any way, only that its gunna be freacking weird in school..
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Post by maxdemone on Apr 17, 2008 17:11:36 GMT -5
i told about 5 girls who i like at my school i like them over Myspace, but they think it's a joke. I'd say do it in person
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Post by lolage on Apr 17, 2008 17:18:15 GMT -5
u told in a bad way then -.-, shes online now. Im just gonna ask if shes with any, if she is ill tell tomorrow, when shes hopefully alone , if she isnt i juts gotta tell her... no way around
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Post by maxdemone on Apr 17, 2008 17:23:28 GMT -5
Just keep thinking, I Think I Can I THink I Can P.S. after i told them on Myspace i told them in person, 3 were taken, 1 was a Lesbian and the other was my girlfriend for a few months
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Post by Paperchase on Apr 18, 2008 0:42:13 GMT -5
You speak about virtual relations?
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Post by Paperchase on Apr 18, 2008 1:21:51 GMT -5
I think that you shouldn't try to be too romantic- that's got a danger of being mushy. That might turn out to be a bit of a laugh. Go more for the sincere tone- nothing too over the top, but something which will make your feelings known, and that it's not a joke. One way that worked with me was to move a conversation onto who liked who then pop the question on who she liked- even if it's not you, it might give you chance to say what you feel without making it too out of the blue
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Post by lolage on Apr 18, 2008 10:44:22 GMT -5
I already told her this morning. I wrote following:
Wanted to say it for a really long time that you are extremly cute and i really like you.
Just that i got it said is a big relief cause i've hold it to myself for a long time.
Her respond:
Thats so cute. Im also glad you told me, cause i had no idea about it. But you are probably more just a friend to me. I've always felt that you just are so sweet in class and a super lovely friend but thats probably just it. Hope you still will be that and ill of course also gonna miss you when 9th grade is over.
I mean, thats just sweet. You kno, in other words "But you are probably more just a friend to me" that would be "I dont think ur 'good looking' and i dont think i would be ur GF or try to hang out to see if it was a possibility".
Its just crap rlly cause when i decided to tell her already then i had this thing going in my mind about how great this would be if we got together and just the whole thought about kissing her. Its making me mad and i just cant get her out of my head. This is one big crap day.
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Post by bassejr on Apr 18, 2008 13:51:14 GMT -5
it's rely anoying when a girl answers you "no, i don't know you enougth" or "you are just a friend to me", dont you think?
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Post by lolage on Apr 18, 2008 15:39:32 GMT -5
yes its BS.. im sad atm /:
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Post by kar98 on Apr 18, 2008 15:43:52 GMT -5
don't worry about it, every guy has been stuck in the friend zone at least once! don't be sad cuz some girl is shallow and biased
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Post by Paperchase on Apr 18, 2008 15:46:10 GMT -5
I'd say 'don't let it get you down' if I didn't know how crappy it feels. But things'll look brighter in the future. And hey, at least you got it off your chest. One thing like that might hit you pretty hard, but let it roll over. Don't let it eat you inside out because you got rejected, because that doesn't make you a bad person. Usually turns out that people who everyone wants to be like at school grows up to lead pretty unremarkable lives
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